Understanding Your Baby's Cuddliness: Why Some Babies Aren't Naturally 'Cuddly'

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It’s understandable to feel disheartened when your baby doesn’t seem as cuddly as you’d hoped. Many parents experience similar feelings. At 7.5 months old, babies are developing rapidly, exploring their independence, and experiencing developmental leaps and regressions, which can often manifest as increased fussiness, resistance to cuddles, and a desire for more movement. Factors like temperament, sleep regressions, and even the way a baby is comforted can influence their cuddle behavior. It’s important to remember that every baby is unique. Instead of focusing on a lack of cuddles, try to observe and respond to your baby’s cues for connection in ways that suit her personality. This might involve more interactive play, gentle rocking, or simply being present and responsive. If you’re struggling with exhaustion and frustration, reaching out for support from your partner, friends, family, or parenting groups can make a significant difference. Remember, your feelings are valid, and seeking support is a sign of strength.

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