The Elf on the Shelf Debate: Why Some Parents Say 'No Thanks'

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The Elf on the Shelf has become a popular holiday tradition for many families, but not everyone is a fan. This post explores the reasons why some parents choose to skip the tradition altogether. Concerns include the idea of a child being ‘watched,’ the pressure to perform daily elaborate setups, and the potential for children to behave differently solely to receive gifts. The post also touches on the perceived creepiness of the elf and the added commitment that ADHD parents may find challenging. While respecting those who enjoy the tradition, this article delves into the counterarguments and alternative approaches to holiday magic, suggesting that the spirit of Santa and family is enough for many.

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