Navigating Aggression in 3-Year-Olds: What to Do When Gentle Parenting Isn't Enough

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It can be incredibly disheartening and frustrating when your 3-year-old engages in hitting, kicking, and spitting, especially when you’ve tried various positive discipline strategies. As a parent, you’re likely feeling exhausted and questioning your approach. This article will explore the common reasons behind such behaviors in toddlers, acknowledge the challenges you’re facing, and offer practical, evidence-based strategies that go beyond the standard gentle parenting techniques when they seem ineffective. We’ll discuss how to address the ‘game’ aspect of their behavior, reinforce boundaries consistently, and explore potential underlying needs or environmental factors contributing to their actions. It’s important to remember that you are not alone, and finding the right approach may involve a combination of strategies tailored to your child’s unique personality and your family’s situation. Stay tuned for actionable advice to help you regain a sense of calm and control.

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